Hi Susan, Thanks so much for your time and advice. Hey guys, I am also right now in a situation like that. Men should tell us exactly what they're looking for before they get us into bed with them, but some of them use our naivety to their advantage. So hate to say this but it might just be hooking up and a friendship so don't expect a real dating relationship with him at least any time soon. He'd want to show you off, so that his family could see how far he's come in life. My advice: Stop hooking up with him right now.
Do you think I should just end things and try being friends or idk… Also do you guys think everything is an act just to use me for sex? I was and still am ok with that for now, but he acts like he is falling for me. He told me he just wanted to be single, he told me I deserved better. If he comes running, ask him what the hell. How can I let him down, gently, but clearly? In other words, does this outcome usually have more to do with him or more to do with something the girl did? We go to the movies, dinner or the occasional movie night at his place. About a month ago now I was at a friends house really late, it was 3am. Atleast from expecience as a guy that's what I've learned and why I get the deer in the headlamp look and get scared away when ever a girl says those words to me.
Everything went decent but afterwards we went to sit by the waterfront and we talked about what was happening to him and the whole cheating thing. This strikes me as a good thing. Once he went away for a few days and told me he missed me. Yes, American men can be inconsiderate, and your response should be to tell him that is not acceptable, and that he may never do it again. He never slept over because he always had an early day at work the next day, or whatever other excuses he gave you.
That's how it went down between the two of us, we talked and it turns out that he doesn't want anything more. My man told me that with his lips but he also had action applied to that to support his cause. As girlfriend or just sex with the quiz based on your best! In February, he got a girlfriend and I was pissed. Basically, a man who actually wants a relationship with you would love everything about you, and not just the things he can see with his own two eyes. Think carefully about what you really need here.
If you would like feedback from me and other readers, please submit your question to the forum. It's unfair of him to expect you to life in this grey area indefinitely. Day My advice to you is the same as for Anna. Signs of a list of these are more than a baby? First, let me say that you are thinking about this in exactly the right way. I told myself I wouldn't get attached to a guy I'd hooked up wtih, but the way he acted made me completely reconsider my feelings and now I can't help but feel something for him. Third, 9 years is a huge age difference at your age.
If you asked him a question, he would answer it. Later that I asked my friend what was said and he told me that he changed the subject just the way he did when he talked about me before. This conversation went late into the night, until he finally asked if it would be absurd to come over. Guys are actually, really, really good at telling you what they want. I usually am not the one to start conversation.
He is always texting me, he tells me that he misses me through out the day, has a nickname for me, he comes over after he is done with work, picks me up from work sometimes, has introduced me to his daughter and close friends which he considers family. He pulls away whenever things start feeling close. I also like the fact that he will do anything to get in touch with me like sending out the cavalry meaning texting, calling, and even trying social media through friends. Could the change in the way he is having sex with me be indicative of his feelings toward me? Tell him you have feelings and ask him about what he feels! But he recently told me that he does not really like sex. Needless to say, more than making out went on.
Anna You must ask him how he feels. He values your opinion, and he cares about what you think about him. His statement that he tries to slow down his feelings for you by not seeing you tells me that he does not want a committed relationship. We were on and off the past year i know on one of our off times i had another guy B im pretty sure he A was jelous of this one B. I guess the question is should i stay or should i go? This guy is just trying to show you that he is open and versatile and cares about what you want and like. If he only shows up at 2 am for a bar close booty call, not so much.